I misunderstood and no vice will be used on any man parts. He was kind, courteous, professional, and not the person my neighbor thought handled their complaint. It was sent to animal control, not him. We have the right to press charges, but dogs killing cats is not uncommon, and this would probably end in the owner's favor. It doesn't sound like killing a few cats makes them dangerous and the dog they attacked didn't require surgery. As it stands now, he is rehoming in Ohio to family. I can't take much more stress. I've decided to not press charges which would take months, only to be dismissed, and during that time the dogs would be required to stay with the owner on my street. Compromise is to fine for leash law violation and remove from premises.
I can't imagine sitting on my deck without the vision of horror that occurred there. In time I guess. The worst was here on the floor with him for his final hour of suffering and that we must deal with daily. Very warm weather for this weekend, but I certainly won't be on my swing.
I hope we will feel like partaking in a dinner soon. We're hungry, but appetite and stomachs aren't cooperating.
Doctors next week, sister wants a haircut (from me of course), we'll find projects to keep us busy. Mark is having such a difficult time and tomorrow will place the third cross he's made for our boys, all resting together. I still can't believe this happened.
Take care everyone.
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19 comments:
I agree the "compromise" would be best at this point. Not many are ever truly benefited by the legal system it seems. Do I sound jaded? Yes, well, yes I am. Jeny turned out wonderfully...it is a shame she won't she the light of day, but I very much understand. I can't say I would do otherwise. The winds here continue.... ~Robin~
Marly, you and Mark have lost another family member. It is devastating and traumatic. It will take time. I think the compromise is best, they will be gone. Please be kind to yourselves. Jen
Jeny is so lovely. Such a shame she will only remind you of the tragedy. Not the most desired outcome, but the compromise is probably best. So very sorry you and Mark are dealing with this.
Mark and Marly bless your aching hearts. This is such a terrible tragedy and I'm sorry you are suffering. Removing the dogs is the best solution in this instance, sadly the danger just move along with them. I was not familiar with this breed until I read an article about a woman killed by her neighbors dogs in San Francisco. They had had several complaints leveled against them as well prior to the fatal attack. Cane corso dogs have been described as "dogs of war". How sad they are protected , but not their innocent victims. Know that many of us are holding you in our hearts.
It would seem that perhaps compromise, rather then caution, is the better part of valor... it allows you to be rid of the culprits and leave space for healing...and healing will come.. but
not at once nor altogether... you have suffered a great, personal loss, Marly. Praying each night for you and Mark that your hearts will be eased and your trust restored. Such a pity that the beautiful Jeny is a tragic reminder. Perhaps one day you will view it for the exquisite piece of work you have produced.. Blessings ~
After reading your painful story, I spent the evening wondering about how nature can be so cruel. I haven't been able to watch wild kingdom shows or certain others for some time. I can't bear the heartbreak. I cannot imagine how painful this is for you both. We live in constant fear of coyotes here. We hear them yipping and occasionally see one near the barn or skulking around near the edge of the woodland. Lola is a playful dog, she would be easily prompted to follow one back to the den.
I think your decision to not pursue legal action is a good one. I think you have a no-win
situation. The sampler is beautiful, it needs to rest and grieve as you do.
Take great care of yourself. You are in my thoughts and I am hoping that you can be busy enough to distract your thoughts. Enjoy the weekend sun.
My hearts aches for you both...life can be so cruel and unjust. Praying better days are ahead.
Marly, your sampler turned out beautifully and will always hold a memory of Nitzy in your heart. I think your decision to not pursue anything against the dog owner is wise although painful to think about.
I look forward to seeing what you decide to stitch next (and I think you should pick that needle up again soon!). Do you have any small design that denotes a happy scene? Something like that might help ease the pains of losing the 2 pussy cats that meant so much to you in different ways.
Thinking of you.
Still cann't find words for this-- so terrible what happened....
So I had a dream last night about a man something like the Beast in the Disney film,only this one was with a lion head.He was in my house and made a big mess when I was away doing some shopping.
Coming home and send this Beast away with my walking stick and found both of my cats dead, murdered by this Beast....
Waking up,I was crying and don't hope I have screamed too, because of the neighbours....
I know it is a dream,but I cann't get rid of that out of my head.
So much more had this to you and Mark with Nitzy in your arms.
How was Caroles reaction on what happened?
Sending prayers and lots of love to you, Truus from Holland
So glad the dog will be gone, for good, I hope. I really think they should be put down before they kill something else, maybe a human. I sooo wish they had never been in your neighborhood to begin with.
I hope you and Mark can do something today to find some pleasure and beauty to enjoy. I know it will take months and maybe years to forget losing Nitzy, Bud and Petey in such a short length of time.
Maybe you can find something fun to stitch, Americana, Summer, Fall, Christmas (Prairie Schooler Santa ?)
Sending hugs and compassion from my home to yours for you and Mark. Bless your dear hearts.
Charlotte in Va.
I am so, so sorry for your loss and such tragedy. Your pain is overwhelming and I understand your memories and grief as we have been through 2 losses last year. We have had our dogs attacked and like you, nothing was to be done. Police reports made and....nothing, even incurring vet bills. My heart goes out to you and your husband and pray that peace comes to you and beautiful memories replace your pain.
I'm of mixed feelings on the outcome. I'm glad the dogs will not pay for owner dumb-assery. OTOH, now they've become someone else's problem. I hope at least the dogs will be separated once there. Break up their little pack so to speak. I wonder if Ohio people (the entire neighborhood, not just the new owners!) will be warned of their past misdeeds?
I'm sorry your enjoyment of deck and Jeny (she turned out lovely) has been trashed by the events of the past few days. It's hard enough to loose our pets when it's natural causes, but to lose them this way and right in front of you... Hugs to you and Mark.
Marly: I am so sorry this has happened to you, its a shame people do not take care of their animals like they should, keeping a dog on leash is a must in my mind.
Beautiful finish.
I hope Carole id doing well.
Bad storms here now as I type.
Catherine
Just thinking about this brings me to tears. I cannot image the horror. Just glad the dog will be gone from the neighborhood. I just hope the owner does not get more dogs…not the dog’s fault but the owner anyway. Men who think having a big ,mean dog makes them strong it wrong. A man walking a poodle is my type of guy.We have such a guy here a big young guy who walks his little scruffy dog twice a day.
I'd consider removing one of the rabbits and stitching a black and white cat to honor Nitzy.
The best, if you can call it best, is that those dogs are being rehomed.
I have cried all day upon reading about your poor Nitzy. But he died in your arms where he knew he was loved. Many do not get that much. And now Missy must carry on with your help. Hugs, Marly.
JustGail I’m an Ohio person and had the same thoughts as you! Not in my neighborhood I pray!!Where ever these dogs are moving to I truly hope they can be better contained and controlled for the safety and well being of the critters and neighbors in the new neighborhood.
Marly I pray time will help you and Mark heal from this terrible trauma and leave you with loving memories of your beloved Nitzy
I agree that the compromise is best, though it still burns my butt. Jeny did turn out so well Marly, but I understand your putting it away...I'm sure I would do the same. Take care.
Oh, Marly, I've not been reading blogs as I had a visit from my grandson and am now having eye issues... I'm so, so sad to read about poor Nitzy. What an awful thing to have happen. You and Mark were the best "parents" he could have had and I'm so glad he found you both. It just makes my eyes tear up reading about his death.
Isn't it interesting how our samplers or other stitched pieces take on the tone of the event that are going on around us? It is a beautiful piece and perhaps you can someday turn it into a memorial piece in honor of Nitzy.
Sending a hug--my heart really hurts for you ♥
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