A nice layout

 Carole seems to be settling into the new room at the SNF.  They put her in a regular room so the remaining 40 days of rehab paid by Medicare can be used after her surgery.  ...... Wait a minute.  When Medicaid takes over, those rehab days will be gone anyway.  It took me a full week of phone calls, tearing her house apart, requesting, and copying all the documents to apply, even though her income is half of the poverty level.  I haven't worked that hard or done that much research in decades.  We visited this morning for the designated hours, with a vanilla iced coffee from McD's and a lousy cheesecake from me.  I have no idea why it turned out like mush.  Her roomie is 105, there is another lady at 110 down the hall, and 106 off another hall. 

This is the room layout for residents which is quite nice and private for a double room, and a curtain can be pulled at each doorway if you prefer being alone.  The other locals are closer to home but have a two bed hospital type room.  It really is a beautiful place with every type of senior accommodation.  But we still wish the right leg was treated so she could move on.

The loss of those gowns was not from WW.  After six weeks and several inquiries I did receive the credit.  And I will never use prepaid labels for returns through a "shipping agent" that I cannot track.  The adaptive gowns were for bedridden patients so I can't imagine why they would be snatched, but we know where they disappeared.

Here's a few snaps of this lovely and massive senior community, offering every type of care from stand alone house, to apartment, to assisted, to memory, to rehab, to full skilled.  On a hill in the country.

End of the hall right off her room,  I so wish she could sit in a wheelchair and enjoy the view.  So may areas have balconies or recessed porches.

The long hall upon entering to reach elevator to rooms, offering a view of the outdoor patios, fountains, and landscaping the entire length. The amenities, salon, spa, exercise room are all in the area, the outdoor grounds are very large and meticulous, completely encircled by buildings.

The interior is outstanding,  divided lite double oak doors throughout, several rooms for small and large parties, comfortable and large gathering rooms for residents, and excellent care. 

Enjoy your day.

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So what can I buy with $4?

 
The equipment is here to tear up the yard for the $15000 sewer mandate and I need to move my black scallop ajuga.  I adore that plant and never found it offered locally again.  Very low and tight growth, lovely blue flower spikes in spring.  Spring?  When was that?  Oh yes, nearing the end of June aren't we?

 My flowers are slowly croaking and the multi colored mini tunia is half dead.  The white variety never fails to thrive and they are doing well in the front.  So I stopped at Lowe's and bought the plug packs of pink begonias to stick in the barrels, they should be a nice size by the time the pink petunia dies (or the equipment destroys them).  No sign, but they priced at one half.  First financial break in months, even if it was only $4!  Still no recovery on that fricking $60+ nightgown and the other one.

I had to drop off pages and pages of copies for the Medicaid program which Carole reluctantly needs.  My government offices are still not open to the public, but for the second time, it appears they aren't open to employees either.  They are in the stores and restaurants and bars, but they certainly can't take the chance to sit six feet away from a person in need that has been paying their salary and benefits.  In stark contrast, the bank employee went over and above her job, and I am extremely grateful, and will certainly let them know.

Carole is discharged today with many appointments scheduled for follow ups.  They said her left leg is at this time not life threatening and she could wait a few months to accept the surgery.  Not treating the right, which if done, would prevent the destruction and loss as what happened to the left.  No longer in rehab, she will have a room mate, not happy at all about that.  Of course, that is up to me to change it regardless of the countless calls that explain I cannot.  Not diagnoses, treatments, locations, time, medications, and now $$$ with self pay admission.  Everything is running on empty. 

I keep up with little Levi's site on FB and a sampler caught my eye.  Jeny Brimer was searched and searched and finally I found out that Milady's Needle will be releasing it.  First time in months I actually had a resolution to a query!  Another interesting but uncomplicated sampler of manageable size.  Sweet.

Hope you have a good weekend!

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Annabelle

 

Obviously more tasty than Limelight.  You would think a hydrangea is a hydrangea, but just like corn, it may look the same while growing but be very different.   

Right next to Annabelle, the Limelight never loses a leaf, year after year.

Nothing good right now in Cleveland and we may be making a trip this afternoon.

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Back then

 Brings a tear to my eye to see the sadness in mom's.

Found while searching through old documents to apply for aid.

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Before I know it

 it will be Christmas.  My cardiologist made a follow up appt for me in six months and it's right before Christmas!  That smacked me across the forehead.  Just as turning 70 next week will.  

 My PTP fabric was in stock when I ordered by not when it shipped so this is what I got in the mail.  My older piece of Aztec Red is darker, more red than orange.

So after Carole goes through upper and lower GI testing Thursday and any issues found resolved during, she may be coming back this weekend.  In a month, she will schedule surgery for amputation.  They all agree that even though blood flow was restored, well, I'm not a vascular doctor and don't understand.  They said she is too ill with her weak heart and other problems to correct the right, but OK to do major surgery?  There will be many many many future trips to see docs there and we're hoping the right will not need to be removed also.  If they would not have waited so long for the left, it would have been saved.  I hope that is not the case with the right but they refuse to attempt, even with her request. Today's nurse asked why I'm not visiting.  Well, I can't pull off the road every 15 minutes to add drops to my eyes during an almost two hour drive, the ER visit before transfer to CC caused a problem because they could not calm her down after I left, and if not in danger I would prefer to spend the few thousand for the hotel room during the surgery. 

 I've had so much spam including porn come to me with my gmail that is linked to my blog, nothing on my other email addresses so it is from Google.  At the same time there was also $430 to GoFundMe ???? and several subscription services around $20 a month that I never ordered on the card I use online, had to close my credit cards.  I won't mention who GoFundMe was for but I can say a hateful non worthy cause.  All fraud charges were refunded, but when it's coming from several sources, no choice but to shut it down.

I hope your week started swell.

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OXY moron

 Please don't mistake my frustration and rants as all caused by medical pros.  These hospitals are some of the best in the country, but short staffing with full capacity is tough for them to deal with.  And we've encountered the same issues time and time again.  Except for three nurses who went over her entire chart and understood her agony because of it.  Not all do, not all think it's necessary as they treat the current issue, not all have the time.  Listening for months to her sobbing and begging for help weakens us, rubs us raw, and any additional issue needing resolution makes us bleed a little more.  

I just got another call from her frustrated nurse, to reason with Carole. She said the doctor thinks she can handle a 300 mg dose of gaba every 6 hours (higher than ever), Tylenol between.  And we all learned something.  The delirium of mammoth proportion caused her to not realize the pain she was in without drugs.  Prior sobbing was for help and of fear, last night was of pain.  The delirium was slowly leaving and making her more aware, probably why pain meds weren't considered since she never complained.  Late morning, she was still on a naval vessel with her crew (yesterday on a bike at Eagle Point), but could converse and joke.  And then .... this last call was because reality returned and demanded OXY.  And when trying to trick her into believing that was not her usual drug, crystal clear dosage, days, location, frequency, spewed from that sailor's mouth.  I guess the vessel has docked and the crew disembarked.  Isn't that amazing?  Elderly need opioids to allow better quality of life, but she was in rehab expecting more surgery, and this may be a problem detoxing in the next few days.  She claims this large dose of the gaba is not working at all but the OXY will.  Now I have to wonder if she should return there after Cleveland.  The facility offered excellent therapy, beautiful building and grounds, but did not honor our request to use another drug and not allow additional doses when asked.

 The transfer to main campus is in the works as of 4 pm, the meds are handled, and I was quite impressed with Carole's lucid response to that doctor.  She said she has gone through hell for months, surgery, therapy, pain, necrosis, immobility.  He is wrong if he thinks it was all for naught and he can take her leg, she's not giving up just yet.  Exactly.  Unless your life is in jeopardy, give yourself a chance to improve.

So I just wanted to explain that yes, there are many things that should and could be handled differently, but I am so expended after months of stress and anguish for what she has endured, that I am at the end of my tolerance level.  Some incidents and decisions I will not forgive, but I can't change.  And if they are being truthful, she will go back to the main hospital and I'll stay at the hotel, and we can get answers now, not wait another month.  Even if not treated this week, knowing what to expect and when will make a huge difference.  And in my extensive research on this disease, procedures, and outcomes, I found an interesting treatment to save limbs at University Hospital down the road from the Clinic.  Whether she would be a candidate, we don't know, but may schedule a consult if we have no other options.

So please forgive my meltdowns, they don't belong on a stitching blog.  I said I wasn't going to keep mentioning this but dammit, it's consumed my life for months and taken over.  I hope to do a little stitching tonight, I'm sure there will be calls asking why she can't get the OXY and nothing else is working, but at least she is back on earth.  And docked.  I will pack a project or two to take if they decide to proceed and there is a ridiculously expensive room for me.  And maybe I can catch up on all of you.  Haven't read blogs or much for months, and I'm hoping there were no heartbreaks or troubles for anyone in that time.  

Good night!!

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