Rachel Seller
Red Barn Samplers
40 count PTP with dmc
Approx 4" x 5"
The books I ordered regarding Alzheimer will I hope, offer some guidance. I only wish I would have had such references when mom moved here. The biggest mistake we made is what many deal with. I only read a sample (hasn't arrived yet) but it hit like a hard slap. I thought I was helping by explaining what she imagined or thought, was not reality. The brief but powerful message from this book .....
What matters more than factual truth is emotional truth. What they believe, validate and defer. Correcting them feels like scolding and being dismissive, you're right, they're wrong. Agree, accept, and change the subject which almost always distracts.
From only a few sentences, I knew this was the book she will need.
Dementia Engagement by Suzanne Faith
The second book I chose is a journal of simple questions to discuss and answer of your life, before those memories are lost.
My Life My Story from Pen Page Purpose
The last one is for the caregiver, with helpful suggestions on how to deal with the tremendous gift they are living.
Self care for Caregivers by Susanne White
I read a few lines and those alone were worth the book ... write down the situation/emotions you are dealing with, fold and insert into a special box. Know it will be retrieved and dealt with tomorrow, get your rest tonight.
All from Amazon
Having minor surgery in office tomorrow, will need to wear a mask. Horrible throat and pounding head. Waited months for this appointment, I'm going. Still waiting almost four weeks for the electrophysiologist I was referred to for a call.
Stay safe, be well.
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