Jun 20, 2021

Thin and sweet

 Finally a morning that I did not need a jacket, so I sat on the swing and started Lucy Beam's sampler.  I have a preference for narrow pieces, seem to be less tedious when a row ends quickly.  A sampler with only four rows but great width, would be frustrating for me.  This is very narrow and should be an enjoyable project.

Of course I changed a few colors but only slight variations to work with the linen.

The beautiful facility that Carole is in is the same as before this last trip to CC.  She was in a different section dedicated to short term stays and rehab, and on a different floor.  The 105 year old is known as the candy lady, and passes it out to other residents and wishes them well daily.  Carole said she can't walk at 82 and this gal is all over the place at 105!!  God bless her!

Some of you questioned the problem with her legs.  You can skip this if you know.  
Three weeks before March 1, her lower legs and feet swelled and were very painful when walking.  Bonehead that she is, waited to see her doctor.  Her son took her since she could barely walk, and that appointment on March 1 turned into a trip to the hospital.  Hasn't been home since.  There was one blister on the right toe, nothing else.  They performed an angiogram and diagnosed peripheral artery disease, one blockage in the right and three in the left.  After waiting a full week for a bed in Cleveland to have the procedure (usually done as outpatient) which couldn't be done here, it turned into a completely different issue.  Well, she was there for two days and to everyone's surprise, she had an intra-aortic balloon in her heart to keep her alive, kidneys failed, and her second TAVR (aortic valve) was put OVER the first one.  Mitral is critical too, but she would not survive general anesthesia.  Once released from ICU with delirium, they continued to save her life for another twelve days, and did not treat the blockages.  She returned here on April 3, and the left legs and toes started to blacken, continued for over four weeks. We didn't realize the extent since her legs were always covered, and Covid lockdown prevented visits.  Her docs knew, and I begged for an earlier appointment because they couldn't manage her pain.  Five weeks later she went to CC for the appointment and they kept her, worked on the left, restored some flow, but there is extensive damage and necrosis.  Earlier intervention would not have had the same result.  After that second TAVR, her echo went from 37% to 24%, and what should have been one night after the procedure required twelve days before discharge. The right leg is excruciating, worsening, and we are wondering if this one will be lost too.  They will not open the blockage, said she is not in good health.  So we wait another month,  But don't understand how she would be considered for general anesthesia and the hours involved with amputation, but not the treat the right so she doesn't lose both.  They are the best, but we still don't comprehend.  She is accepting the loss which will be within months, but is asking why if the pain has lessened and flow returned.  It's been a circle of confusion and frustration for us, and devastating to her asking for help, especially with lingering delirium.  Wherever she is, they insist she can sit, she cannot!  PAD pain is commonly during rest, not movement, hers is the opposite.  The main cause of the this condition is smoking (we were told), they can't believe she never did.  

Storm brewing here on a hot and humid day.  June will be ending very soon.

Hope your weekend was enjoyable.

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Jun 19, 2021

A nice layout

 Carole seems to be settling into the new room at the SNF.  They put her in a regular room so the remaining 40 days of rehab paid by Medicare can be used after her surgery.  ...... Wait a minute.  When Medicaid takes over, those rehab days will be gone anyway.  It took me a full week of phone calls, tearing her house apart, requesting, and copying all the documents to apply, even though her income is half of the poverty level.  I haven't worked that hard or done that much research in decades.  We visited this morning for the designated hours, with a vanilla iced coffee from McD's and a lousy cheesecake from me.  I have no idea why it turned out like mush.  Her roomie is 105, there is another lady at 110 down the hall, and 106 off another hall. 


This is the room layout for residents which is quite nice and private for a double room, and a curtain can be pulled at each doorway if you prefer being alone.  The other locals are closer to home but have a two bed hospital type room.  It really is a beautiful place with every type of senior accommodation.  But we still wish the right leg was treated so she could move on.

The loss of those gowns was not from WW.  After six weeks and several inquiries I did receive the credit.  And I will never use prepaid labels for returns through a "shipping agent" that I cannot track.  The adaptive gowns were for bedridden patients so I can't imagine why they would be snatched, but we know where they disappeared.



Here's a few snaps of this lovely and massive senior community, offering every type of care from stand alone house, to apartment, to assisted, to memory, to rehab, to full skilled.  On a hill in the country.





End of the hall right off her room,  I so wish she could sit in a wheelchair and enjoy the view.  So may areas have balconies or recessed porches.



The long hall upon entering to reach elevator to rooms, offering a view of the outdoor patios, fountains, and landscaping the entire length. The amenities, salon, spa, exercise room are all in the area, the outdoor grounds are very large and meticulous, completely encircled by buildings.




The interior is outstanding,  divided lite double oak doors throughout, several rooms for small and large parties, comfortable and large gathering rooms for residents, and excellent care. 


Enjoy your day.

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Jun 18, 2021

So what can I buy with $4?

 
The equipment is here to tear up the yard for the $15000 sewer mandate and I need to move my black scallop ajuga.  I adore that plant and never found it offered locally again.  Very low and tight growth, lovely blue flower spikes in spring.  Spring?  When was that?  Oh yes, nearing the end of June aren't we?




 My flowers are slowly croaking and the multi colored mini tunia is half dead.  The white variety never fails to thrive and they are doing well in the front.  So I stopped at Lowe's and bought the plug packs of pink begonias to stick in the barrels, they should be a nice size by the time the pink petunia dies (or the equipment destroys them).  No sign, but they priced at one half.  First financial break in months, even if it was only $4!  Still no recovery on that fricking $60+ nightgown and the other one.



















I had to drop off pages and pages of copies for the Medicaid program which Carole reluctantly needs.  My government offices are still not open to the public, but for the second time, it appears they aren't open to employees either.  They are in the stores and restaurants and bars, but they certainly can't take the chance to sit six feet away from a person in need that has been paying their salary and benefits.  In stark contrast, the bank employee went over and above her job, and I am extremely grateful, and will certainly let them know.

Carole is discharged today with many appointments scheduled for follow ups.  They said her left leg is at this time not life threatening and she could wait a few months to accept the surgery.  Not treating the right, which if done, would prevent the destruction and loss as what happened to the left.  No longer in rehab, she will have a room mate, not happy at all about that.  Of course, that is up to me to change it regardless of the countless calls that explain I cannot.  Not diagnoses, treatments, locations, time, medications, and now $$$ with self pay admission.  Everything is running on empty. 


I keep up with little Levi's site on FB and a sampler caught my eye.  Jeny Brimer was searched and searched and finally I found out that Milady's Needle will be releasing it.  First time in months I actually had a resolution to a query!  Another interesting but uncomplicated sampler of manageable size.  Sweet.


Hope you have a good weekend!

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Jun 17, 2021

Annabelle

 

Obviously more tasty than Limelight.  You would think a hydrangea is a hydrangea, but just like corn, it may look the same while growing but be very different.   


Right next to Annabelle, the Limelight never loses a leaf, year after year.


Nothing good right now in Cleveland and we may be making a trip this afternoon.

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Jun 16, 2021

Back then

 Brings a tear to my eye to see the sadness in mom's.


Found while searching through old documents to apply for aid.

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Jun 15, 2021

Before I know it

 it will be Christmas.  My cardiologist made a follow up appt for me in six months and it's right before Christmas!  That smacked me across the forehead.  Just as turning 70 next week will.  

 My PTP fabric was in stock when I ordered by not when it shipped so this is what I got in the mail.  My older piece of Aztec Red is darker, more red than orange.

So after Carole goes through upper and lower GI testing Thursday and any issues found resolved during, she may be coming back this weekend.  In a month, she will schedule surgery for amputation.  They all agree that even though blood flow was restored, well, I'm not a vascular doctor and don't understand.  They said she is too ill with her weak heart and other problems to correct the right, but OK to do major surgery?  There will be many many many future trips to see docs there and we're hoping the right will not need to be removed also.  If they would not have waited so long for the left, it would have been saved.  I hope that is not the case with the right but they refuse to attempt, even with her request. Today's nurse asked why I'm not visiting.  Well, I can't pull off the road every 15 minutes to add drops to my eyes during an almost two hour drive, the ER visit before transfer to CC caused a problem because they could not calm her down after I left, and if not in danger I would prefer to spend the few thousand for the hotel room during the surgery. 

 I've had so much spam including porn come to me with my gmail that is linked to my blog, nothing on my other email addresses so it is from Google.  At the same time there was also $430 to GoFundMe ???? and several subscription services around $20 a month that I never ordered on the card I use online, had to close my credit cards.  I won't mention who GoFundMe was for but I can say a hateful non worthy cause.  All fraud charges were refunded, but when it's coming from several sources, no choice but to shut it down.

I hope your week started swell.

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