Waiting

 Thank you for the kind and caring comments.  Hospice needs to be ordered by her doctor for palliative care and meds coverage.  Her PCP is not giving up.  In fact, the latest cardio doc feels there is only one reason for efficiency of 40% to quickly fall to 10%.  Blockage is her diagnosis.  The meds are not doing their job, they overloaded her to rid the fluid which in turn caused kidney failure.  I explained again, she was released the first time totally and obviously bloated, but they couldn't see this?  On Monday, a right heart cath will be done in search of a piece of plaque causing the problem.  I think she makes sense.  Carole is terrified.  As much of a risk (at 10%), and it is great, it has to be done.  

I though I would relax a little this afternoon but the house residents have not been there and won't be again today.  She needs helps to eat and lays a guilt trip on me for not being there constantly.  I cannot breathe with that n95 mask and my Sjogren's has been flared for two weeks,  My lips are bleeding from fissures.  But it is what it is.

I need to hold my dried out tongue which is so very difficult after checking her financials, making sure the bills are paid on time.  Her card has been used while hospitalized so I investigated and found charges that they assumed would not be noticed.  This is on top of the destruction of her furnishings by the Dane that doesn't bother them one bit.  But it goes with the pig sty they created.  Mark said I am going to have a major health crisis if I can't let this go.  Why can't I?

This is what I'm taking today and hopefully will attempt to work on.  I have to remove the mask to do so but can't handle it for long anyway.

It's been beautiful here, warm and sunny for over a week.  

So they tell me.

Enjoy your weekend.

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Continuation

It started Tuesday, Wednesday back in hospital, today back in ICU.  Did covid attack her weak heart, was it lack of meds, or was it a coincidence that her heart is functioning at 10% and filling her with fluid?  The cardio doc said to her "do you realize your prognosis is very poor?".  Kidneys can't survive the meds needed to move that fluid, heart can't survive struggling to remove it.  Nursing facilities will not accept her at discharge as she tests positive (you can for 90 days), even though not contagious.  No where to go.

I stitched this during the first crisis. 

 Emma Rone from MommalovesyouGB.

PTP Vellum 40 count with dmc charted colors except for Ecru changed to 648.  Size of 6" wide x 3.5".

I can finish with the top closure, 

or fold in a flap style pouch with a ribbon to secure.

I take small PS halloween projects with me to the hospital, can't see over the masks.  Hard to concentrate anyway with nauseous anxiety.  Nothing started, just carried daily.

I have not been online much, hope everyone is fine.

That's all.

Be well.

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The middle of September

And Carole was released from ICU on Friday the 13th, with no empty beds in the medical units.  So they had to send her home Saturday.  Covid is once again, filling the hospitals.  She couldn't even hold a pen to sign her name, so weak.  We did not expect her to survive.  

Her doctor whom Mark spoke with this morning, also did not anticipate survival.  And his orders at discharge to stop all meds will be ignored tomorrow.  He refused to rescind stating he will discuss that with her when she comes in, no explanation offered to us, or her.  Home health is monitoring, she's been home four days!  And how long does he think she will last with no glucose control, heart failure drugs, diuretic, along with nine others?  Tomorrow home health will be asked to call her doctor for verification of this and entered in their records.  And then, family and nurse will discuss return to her usual routine and dosage, none changed or added from what she took before covid or during hospitalization.  I am attempting to remain calm.  It ain't fricking happening.   

I stitched a little sampler.  Adorable little sampler.  Will show you tomorrow after health report.  We are cautiously optimistic for her recovery to continue. 

Thanks for the prayers and well wishes.  She needed them badly, still does.

Her doctor may need a good athletic cup. 

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Another break

 I hope all the R&R charts I offered have been received, and Barbara's Nash chart was also mailed.

Covid has caused Carole's kidneys to fail, she is in ICU.  Just like FOUR YEARS ago when she was near death and f-ing covid kept loved ones away from those in desperate need of their family. This morning a call came at 5am. We needed n95 masks, gowns, gloves, and were ready to suit when they halted the intended visit in order to transfer her to ICU.  She was sleeping, did not know we were there, and I was told to not come back since this strain of covid could be severe with my autoimmune disease.  When she is awake, as happened before with all the machines and strange room, she is experiencing that psychosis patients can develop in hospitals, on top of the recurring hallucinations (covid caused).

The next few days are critical, I don't know if another hospital will be an option.

I'll be back to stitching when she is out of the woods as they say.  

Praying that will be an option.  They can't say that it is.

Stay safe, be well.

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A twig

 Could not leave well enough alone.

It's not perfect symmetry but I prefer a more balanced design.  I wanted to do a peacock with the tail "eyes" matching the right side motif's round buds.  But the bird would have been too large for such a tail, so I chose one the same stitch width and height as the right motif.  Still bugged  me.

So I added a little twig with a leaf and bud to his beak, what a difference.  I'm as close to satisfied as a crabass can be.

Carole is quite ill with covid and making it worse is tremendous phantom pain in both legs.  That emanates from the brain since her legs are gone.  Running her hand up and down her stumps to establish physicality is what is recommended along with sitting in front of a full length mirror for visual recognition.  Even then, your brain may not oblige and revert to the pain experienced before loss.  Pain medication does not really help, the nerve endings are not there to treat.  This coincided with covid, because of the immune system on full alert?  I know (as just happened) my Sjogren's becomes extreme when I am ill.  I got Paxlovid for her, for Chris (hasn't been out of bed for days), and Matt (starting to recover).  Tracy is negative and took two more cats today, holding our breaths she stays that way. 

I have news regarding the felines, will share this weekend.

As for the flowers, I use basic Miracle Grow and also their Bloom Booster every week, water the tunias every day, once quite large it's twice a day.  Jack's 20-20-20 is also a great basic but I don't care for their Bloom Booster.

So who is getting the Nash chart?

Barbara from Kansas.  Several emails were received and included, Random scrambled and chose.  Thanks everyone and especially for including contact info!

Be well, be safe.

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Finish

 Loving these small projects.  Not fully finished yet.

On 46 count I dyed, dmc 221.

The bird was changed to a larger motif for balance.

Any problems during this stitch? Big time.  Alignment and border were continually one thread off yet the error locations could not be found.  A few projects prior, I mentioned the 46 I was working was woven with threads that easily broke.  Finally found that breaks were causing the problem.  May have been two threads to most stitches but a few inches over, it had dropped and no longer visible so I was actually over three.  Re-weaving 46, not fun.

Sick for a few days, got really bad news from my dentist because of the Sjogren's dryness, and came home to find out Carole has covid.  I called her doc and will pick up Paxlovid in a few hours.

Two more female surgeries Friday, another two next week, another two the following week.  All pregnant, not sure if they will proceed with surgery by then.

Now.  Because I was gifted this chart, I will pay it forward and send to someone else.  If you get it and already have the chart, please pass it on!   Wait.  My stored info was deleted with contacts when I tried to fix my email problems.  Comments are no-reply except for a handful if that, so I can't even contact you for an address.  .......

Interested in this chart?

Leave your email in a comment until Friday noon, or directly by clicking my email link at top right column.

From 93 to 65 in less than a week.  My buds are shriveled.

Be safe!

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