Hi everyone. Bud's exam in the vetmobile did not go well. As thin and old as he is, doc said he is a tough customer and was unable to fully examine Bud's mouth. The assistant was large and strong, and even while wrapped, Bud was extremely difficult. His gums are bright red, very swollen, and bled when touched. The further back he tried to see the more inflamed it was. There are cancers that could cause this, or the plaque buildup, but his heart is so bad the anesthesia could be fatal or cause more injury. So he offered an antibiotic that targets the mouth, and gabapentin for pain. With two professionals unable to handle him, he doesn't expect we will be able to insert a syringe four times a day. Already failed twice. Mark could not hold his head still enough and honestly, the stress to Bud is just as damaging. So we will try to keep him happy and comfortable but I can't see that lasting much longer.
Continuing stitching progress and all errors but one are standing proud and staying put. And I am very anxious to be done with Elizabeth. Elizabeth was my MIL's name, she died at 54 from ovarian cancer. Mark said there was always a container of baby powder on the edge of the tub. Elizabeth was his sister's middle name, who died at 43. Elizabeth was my dearest friend's name who passed several years ago. None of which have anything to do with the Elizabeth Clayton sampler, but reminiscing usually accompanies this type of mood.
Hoping you all have a pleasant Wednesday It won't be long before January disappears.
As did the pie.
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Oh, so sorry to hear that Bud is so unwell - I am sending him healing hugs.
It's always sad to watch our pets fail--you feel so helpless. But, you and Mark have given him you all, Marly, and I hope he isn't too uncomfortable.
That's so sad that your MIL died at such a young age... Oh, that baby powder... I just wonder what other potentially dangerous things we are exposed to day in and day out. Hope the pie was good :)
Awww, I am sorry that Bud is not feeling well. I know you are taking care of his as best you can. Let Elizabeth be as well.
It must have been really hard on you and bud as well. Rather than having him suffer more,it sounds like he should have been put down. Please don’t get upset with me, I love my pets and can do all I can with them. Had to put my 15 year old down and it was a very hard decision.
So sad to learn about Bud who I know you've done everything you can for. These pets are like our children and it is so sad to watch them begin to fail. He's been a really good companion for you and know he'll always hold a special place in your heart. I'm sure he knows you love him and you're trying to do the best you can for keeping him comfortable. Will be thinking of you in the days ahead.
Our pets are so important to us and watching them age, fail, or be upset is horrible. When I had to let my Lucy go, a Beautiful Black Lab that my son rescued, it was very hard, but I knew it was time. She was 17 and that is pretty old for a big dog. Your little Bud has had a good life with you and you have done your best, many would not have tried. Knowing that I hope his course is peaceful and your anxiety is reduced knowing you did your best.
Oh, my heart just breaks over poor Bud....and I know yours is hurting tenfold more. Hugs my friend....praying for comfort for Bud...and peace for you in the decisions ahead of you....and healing..... ~Robin~
Dear Marly,
Please know how very sorry I am for you and Mark, and for poor Bud! Such a heartbreaking situation!!!
My thoughts and prayers are with you!!
Big Heart Hugs~
Julie xo
I am so sorry to hear about Budman - I know how hard it is they become so much a part of our everyday lives - hugs to you and Mark 😕
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