May 26, 2021

Soon to be June


And lots of transplanting to still do.  Carole's are done, ferns and petunias, mine will be soon.  For years I moved to a 12" pot using ProMix all purpose.  Just grabbed the only bag I found and it's Garden, for in ground.  I had to switch to Miracle Gro and repot all.  Not very knowledgeable about annuals, I didn't want to chance a high nitrogen or whatever and risk more loss.   The clothesline pole was a good way to hang nine ferns using three hooks so I'm getting a few more and will spray paint them black.
Comfort food is sometimes more heartburn than comfort, but good kielbasa is worth it.
 Sis was moved, even though staff and supervisors kept coming in and requesting she stay.  After one day in the new place, the therapy manager understood her restrictions.  Just by two simple adjustments, she was able to accomplish the movement that was unattainable before.  Therapy is therapy, necessary and helpful, but sometimes the therapist makes all the difference.  From the numerous phone calls and questions and offers, we absolutely made the right decision.  She's not as close, but holy crap that place is gorgeous with beautifully landscaped and accessible outdoors, and more importantly, dedicated, accommodating, informative.  

Finally heard from CC, said her kidney/heart issue was a real struggle after the contrast dye and they may not attempt the right leg.  The NAC that is very helpful in preventing the kidney failure from contrast, is not available.  She is not being evaluated for over two weeks, no testing scheduled before, and the necrosis on her left took only 24 days from a few toes to entire front of leg ....  Nothing we can do, but maybe the doctor at this new facility will take over.  Sometimes she is nasty and disgusted, other times her sense of humor returns.  When the team came in a few days ago, they said that she will lose the left's toes.  She looked puzzled, "how"?  A nurse said they will fall off and hit the floor.  Carole's reply was, "I hope I'm not eating a hot dog when that happens".  Well, our hot dog buns were enjoyed by our raccoons that night and the Smith dogs are in the freezer.

So many phone calls, research, ordering, returning, and I continually requested her weight to gauge robe size and was told it hadn't changed.  I guess this new facility knows how to read numbers because she is close to 40 pounds lighter.  I already washed everything, can't return, and had to reorder a smaller size.  I even ordered a few items for myself. Very nice, not real cheap (for a penny pincher like me) and although seeming like excellent quality, not so after washing.  But the muslin throw from Mushie is a big hit.  The adaptive gown over $60 (with express shipping) is missing, as is the pink silky muumuu.  No idea how they disappeared.

Mark made a very large cross for Bud's resting site, and when I saw it unfinished on the dining table I thought we would be fighting vampires.  Big ones.  After these last few months, bring it.  He is still very upset and misses him.

So I hope all is well with you and yours and even some that aren't.  

Most of you will not agree but I am sad that Swamp People is ending this week.  Really.  I enjoy Troy and his family, envy the large gatherings sharing food and laughter after a long sweaty work day.  It has nothing to do with the hunt.  To me, that is real life reality TV.  Not half naked girls claiming their kids come first, with more hair and makeup than I weigh, fighting over an idiot.

Enjoy what's left of May.  
Oh my, that hurt coming out.

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15 comments:

Nana J said...

I thought for one wild moment you were planning on painting the ferns black.

CathieJ said...

Thanks for the update. It soulnds like Carol is in a caring place.

Anonymous said...

Sounds like things are looking up some. You guys have been through it. Continue good thoughts and karma to all of you. I know you and Mark miss your Bud, losing a beloved furrball is like losing a family member. Jen

Unknown said...

Glad Carole is doing better. A little? I hope. Shame about her leg. Sounds like she's in a good place at least. So there's that. And yup a good therapist will make all the difference. Just like a good doctor. Seems like she's had her share of bad doctors, but hopefully she gets the care she needs from a doctor who gives a darn. Sorry Swamp People is ending. I've heard of it, but I've never watched it. I have to agree with you about some of those trashy reality shows though. Makeup and money are more important than their dignity. Embarrassing. Praying for Carole still.

Truus said...

Glad to hear that Carole is nog on a better place with attention to her health.
Your hanging plants are beautiful and will be great hanging outside.
Missing Bud is normal and I miss my big red one still after 5 years.
Take care of yourself and prayers and a big hug to you all.
Truus from Holland

Annmarie said...

Hopefully the location and care will make a difference - that there are more smiles than pain. As time passes, I realize that I probably don't say thank you enough. Thank you for your blog and postings and thank you for your care of family every day.
Hope your holiday weekend is relaxing and joyful.
ann

Charlotte MacDiarmid said...

Some good news about Carole. Even a little bit is good.
I don't know how you are holding up. Kielbasa ?
Your ferns are gorgeous as are the petunias.
I'm not buying any annuals this year. Have hostas in pots on my deck for a little bit of greenery.
Keeping the good thoughts and prayers for a big miracle for Carole.
Charlotte in Va.

diamondc said...

Marly: I do not know how you are doing this, it has to be exhausting, I would be pounding on the doctors door to get things done.
I am sad Carole is having such a hard time, I hope they can get her health under control.
Kielbasa is yummy, I love it and yes it is a comfort food, especially with fried potatoes.
Beautiful baskets I love the ferns.
I started to cry when I read that your husband made a cross for Bud, that is so touching to my heart.

Catherine

SusieK said...

My husband watches Swamp People and when I walk through I tell him "I can't understand a word they are saying" but he enjoys it. It sounds like you have made the right choice regarding moving Carole. When my Mother and my Mother-in-law were in nursing homes we decided to move them to a different facility oh what a difference it made. They were a little upset at first but the people treated them like humans instead of animals. They came to love it and that made us happy. You are truly a God send for your sister. I wish every elderly person had someone like you in their family. XOXO

Anonymous said...

Happy to read your update, a little sunshine peeking thru? Your decision to move Carole to this facility sounds like the right one, so glad to hear it`s working out. Hope you are able to enjoy this weekend and those beautiful flowers!

Rugs and Pugs said...

That's a lot of plants you have there!
Hopefully there will be more good news about Carole soon. Fingers crossed.
LOL! I never even heard of the Swamp People ;-)

Carol said...

I'm so far behind on blog reading this month as the baby was here, Marly. You must never sleep between worrying and caring for Carole, odering clothing, taking care of both of your gardens (I haven't even bought a single flower yet this year!), cooking, stitching, and taking care of your own health issues. I'm worn out just thinking about everything. Hang in there--it does sound like Carole is in a nice place and I do hope you'll be hearing more good news soon. She is so blessed to have you looking out for her--truly! ♥

TheCrankyCrow said...

Sooooo....you're getting three more clotheslines and painting them black? Or three more ferns?? Hoping it's hooks??? Seriously....those ferns are GORGEOUS!!! I hate transplanting things....especially "hanging" things, but you must get a lot more growth and beauty out of them. I am not even thinking plants yet or anymore. It snowed today. But speaking of beauty....you yard is wonderful. I hope that is not where the "disturbance" will be. So glad Carole has made the move and it has proved a "good move" so far. I am hoping I forget the hotdog thing...soon. We have a very short grilling season and I love hotdogs. ~Robin~

capecodgirl565 said...

As an avid watcher of Swamp People, I too will be sad to see it end. While the half submerged creepy boats, snakes and spiders freak me out, I do enjoy all the characters. Prayers continue for Carole and for you having to deal with all you are dealing with as well. Stay strong!

Vera said...

Wow! You've been so busy (emotionally and physically). I'm just trying to catch up on blog reading - have been busy work-wise which is strange. Glad to hear that Carole is in a better facility. Hoping you can have an enjoyable (despite the weather forecast) weekend. And, hope you can relax some.

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