The cave. Seeing an empty bed at night and early morning is heart wrenching isn't it? As frail as he had become, we were surprised to see him scratch deck posts, chase Missy to the woods, and jump on the bed several times each eve to snooze next to Mark as he watched a game. So I carried him to that bed and Mark took over stroking him until the very end. Thank God for the mobile vet that added us. She kept in touch throughout the day making sure Bud was comfortable and not in pain. He had a stroke, mobility was hampered as was eyesight, but we were talking and touching him so he was not afraid. His final day was calm and quiet, snoozing in his hut as we kept him company.
Mark visited Carole, came home and saw Nit in Bud's freshly washed hut, yelled to him to get out - that's Bud's! Gives us a head turn too since he is the image of his dad. Mark is having a hard time after the last few months, more so than he expected. Missy has not stopped meowing.
Thank you everyone.
Have a nice Sunday. In May. Damn.
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14 comments:
As sad as Bud`s last day was I was touched by the love you and Mark showered upon him. You have provided the best care and loving home to all of the brats, they truly hit the jackpot when you came into their lives. Poor Mark, you two have been thru the wringer for quite awhile now, hoping the tide will turn and better days are ahead for you both. As I read your blog I am struck by your gift of descriptive writing and your ability to tell a story, not too wordy but the words you do choose are perfect, to the point, and have meaning. If there was an award for best blog writer I would nominate you in a heartbeat! Wishing you and Mark a peaceful day, continued prayers to you both.
Run fast and free, Budman. You won the kitty lottery when you adopted Marly and Mark. My heart aches for you both. It is so hard to lose a furbaby. They are family.
Hopefully you and Carole can get appointments scheduled that actually happen. Can you imagine if we had socialized medicine what it would be like? My guess is an even worse nightmare.
Susan Wiggs stories are very similar to Debbie Macomber. You will like them. Sherryl Woods is also very similar. I recommend both authors. So glad you were able to comfort Bud at the end. So sad for both of you. I hope you and Carole can get the appointments and care you need soon.
Your cross-stitch is looking good. Best idea is to pack a variety to have a choice. Take care.
Animals grieve too. Nit may have wanted to be near Budman's smell if though washed. Poor Missy. Glad he was home and passed gently with you and Mark with him. Losing a furrbaby is just about as bad as losing a family member. I swear I have seen shadows of my cats I've lost and saw pawprints in carpet under bed after I had vacuumed there. No other animals in house. Was comforting. I hope things start to improve with you and Carole soon.
Wishing you both all the best and hope Carole have her appointment and the care she need very soon.
Take care and stay save and a big hug for you and Mark.
Lots of love, Truus from Holland
My heart is broken for you, Mark and your other kitties. My family and I totally understand losing a beloved fur baby.
Prayers for strength to get through ALL of this.
Sending love, hugs and deepest sympathy for all that you're going through.
Charlotte in Va.
I want to come back as a pet cat to owners like you and Mark.
I know this is such a hard time for you both. Budman was a lucky cat.
My heart aches for you both. It is probably one of the most difficult things to experience losing a pet. Each one of them brings so much joy and craziness into our lives. I am so sorry. Your Bud is at peace. I hope you can get some peace, too. You have been through so much. God bless you all.
These small creatures, who ask nothing but kindness from us, leave us with such emptiness when they continue their journey into the next world. What incredible caretakers you and your husband have been. Bud was fortunate to have people who loved him, cared for him and even at the last, did what was best for him.
Take care of yourself as you sally forth in the continued roll of Marley, Super Human! Hugs...
I just lost my rescue cat that I had for 15 years. I miss him so much. I know just how you feel. It is so hard when they leave us. I think the only thing that will help is time. We will never forget them, but the pain lessens a little as time goes by. I am praying for both you and Carole.
Budman was trying to comfort you and Mark every bit as much as the two of you were trying to comfort him. And yes, the other cats are grieving too. Anyone who says otherwise is wrongwrongwrong.
Margret is looking good. I hope something is set up for Carole sooner than later, for you and Mark's sake as well as hers. (((hugs)))
I would say Bud’s passing was very peaceful, you are more caring than I. I decided long ago I could not “be there”. Does Carole like mysteries ? Two come to mind. The Cat Who series by Lillian Braun. They are sweet and if you love cats adorable. They other is another “cozy mystery” by Emily Brightwell the Mrs jeffries series. Neither too complicates but I adored The Cat Who series. Be well, and for you and all who rescue and adopt cats and dogs you have done the best for them no matter how short or long they are with us.
Dear Marly, My heart hurts for all you are going through. You and Mark gave Bud so much love and it sounds like his passing was very peaceful. Cats definitely grieve the passing of their friends. Thinking of you and sending big hugs and prayers.
Marly, I am so sorry to read about Bud. I know how difficult it is. Continued prayers for you and your family.
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