Just can't manage the entire project. I love this, but have no desire to attempt those motifs or continue counting/misaligning floral stems and leaves.
I could end it with a large bird above the flowers, or set it aside. I know Anne would not be picked up again, so a decision needs made.
Looking for a painter to do our walls, I have no ambition regarding the entire kitchen cabinets either. Seriously considering the Krylon chalk finish spray that matches the White Dove for the first coat on the doors.
One of Carole's friends that calls has dealt with a drug addicted son for years who stole their savings, his two daughters both had babies before age 17, caregiver to stroke disabled husband, and her daughter who had breast and ovarian cancer at the same time years ago, is no longer in remission. And she would still ask if there is something she could do for you. Cries all the time, terrible stress and heartache for many years.
Chris is doing well with recovery, anxious to return to work. We are still going through clothes and such. Carole's pacemaker monitor was notified of her passing, yet a few days ago, police and ambulance rushed to her house at 3 am. Scared everyone of course, and explained they were notified about a patient in cardiac distress at her address. Really? She has not been within range or monitored since september 5, and been listed as deceased for weeks.
Hope everyone is doing well.
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I feel very badly about Carole`s friend. There are plenty of cheery sayings but in reality life is hard. You are proof of that between your health issues, cat issues, family issues, yard issues...sigh. It`s enough to turn anyone into a crabass. Luckily you are a nice one though.
So glad that Chris is doing well. Thank God for small favors. As for Carole's friend God bless her in some way. You are in my thoughts and prayers, Marly. Take care of yourself. Stitch if you feel like, don't if you don't. I hope your trees are pretty for you now.
By all means, knit something warm and toasty...
Oh Ann Hughs is SO GORGEOUS, but I understand that you do not have the umph to get her all done anymore Marly. You do whatever part of her you want and it will look great. I did not recall you know how to knit. I can imagine the scare that gave everyone with the police and ambulance coming at 3 am!
Yes, Carole's friend is dealing with a lot of crap and needs someone to talk to. That would be not you, IMHO. You've got enough woes of your own and don't need to act as her unpaid therapist, draining your energy. I suggest remembering you don't *have* to answer the phone every time she calls, and if anyone says it's cruel to cut her off, tell them it's wonderful they are going to take calls from Carole's friend from now on, and give her their number.
Yay! that Chris is doing well. I bet he can't wait to go back to the peace and quiet at work and get out of the house with all that's going on there. Especially if he's not supposed to doing much and can't help. I hope the pacemaker thing doesn't happen again, especially not at those hours!
Bummer that you're not feeling the stitching desire to finish Anne, or the painting. Anne would be a nice little sampler as is, maybe add a couple small birds or motives at top left, and bits of something at bottom right to balance it out more. You knit also? A change to that, sewing, or something besides cross stitch samplers might be nice change for a bit.
that should be "birds or small motifs at top left"
And I don' t mean to sound so bossy about what you should do in that part about Carole's friend...sorry. Once again, I seem to be feeling a bit indignant on your behalf regarding other people's demands and expectations of you.
Marly, just a warning to possibly prepare yourself emotionally: going through our mother's clothing in August and then dropping them off at St. Vincent de Paul for donation was possibly one of the most wrenching elements of mom's passing for my sister and me to deal with. The finality of giving up her clothes which we had seen her wear, sometimes daily, weekly, holidays, special family events, etc. had us both sobbing uncontrollably in the St. Vincent parking lot. I wish you continued strength and grace as you continue to sort through Carole's belongings.
Personally, I think it would be charming with the 2 flowerpots on either side of the house, the 2 little animals (dogs?) on either side of the writing, and a single bird centered over the roof.
But then I'm not an expert.
You have such an amazing heart. I don't think I could be so patient.
I can empathize with the not feeling the needle love. I finished up my last little sampler and think that I need to pick up my hook again for a while but, truly, not feeling that either. Not feeling much of anything of late. The thought crossed my mind when you first mentioned Carole's friends calling you that, perhaps, they are reaching out in the only way they know of to try to help distract you, or just provide some company. As for the clothes...heck, you're one strong sort. I still have gone through my husband's and we're coming up on a year. :-( ~Robin~
Marly did you tell Carole's friend about your health problems and all you are dealing with when Carole was in hospital and what was/is going on in her house?
It sounds probaly cruel, but your problems are as bad as hers and you lost your sister shortly and has to deal with your grief too! You cann't go on with listening to hear and please tell her that it is to much for you at the moment. Don't answer the Phone when she calls you please!!!
Happy that Chris is doing well.
Take care and take the time for yourself and Mark.
Lots of love and sending a big hug, Truus from Holland
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