Petey is a feral cat that I can't handle, treat for fleas, or trap for the vet. He has a heated house inside of a wooden house that we built for him. He eats great food, and always has fresh water. This "abused" pet is happy in his house, yet leaves for hours in the cold which is his choice. I can touch his head for a few seconds before he bolts or swats but no one else can get near. I have two that spend most of their time in my house, ready to rip me to shreds. No intention of bringing another in that fights with Nit, attacks Missy, has ticks on his back, and I'm certain fleas also. If you would like to attempt capturing this fifteen pound male, you'll need prescription medication to knock him out which I can't get from a vet (best administered with a dart gun because he will smell it in his food), take a chance with human meds that may kill him, and have antibiotics on hand for your cat bites. Three months of various bait treats and familiar locations using a large trap failed. Let me know when you're coming, I would really like to de-flea and de-worm him.
I agree with you regarding animals/pets outside, it's heartbreaking, but sometimes it can't be helped so we do the best we can to provide shelter and warmth, food and water.
There is a great number of gullible hateful people currently infecting this country that label and attack people on assumptions rather than facts, the vast majority of them hypocrites. I have no doubt your concern for animals is genuine, and not hypocritical.
Have fun folks!
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