I enjoyed reading about your sentiments on family china and traditions. When I moved Mom in 18 years ago, I had a large set of
Pfaltzgraff Folk Art. The weight of the dishes was more than she was used to and not comfortable for her. No where to sell the Pfalzgraff and too heavy for mailing, I donated to the domestic abuse shelter for families starting over. Perfect option for no longer used crock pots, pans, kitchen items and dinnerware.
My sister once scolded me for donating items that belonged to our parents. Just because Mom had it, didn't mean she loved it and would not have discarded if she could afford to replace. When she got to choose what to bring here, I was very surprised that she didn't care about most of her items and wanted new! What about my grandparents, who came here from critically poor villages? They were so glad to have anything and would never consider replacing items unless they were no longer usable. But if a friend or neighbor was in need, they would offer what they could, even if it meant they went without for a while because they all knew what it was like in "the old country". When my grandfather got off the plane from a trip back to his village after Baba passed away, he dropped to the asphalt and cried. My mom and aunt ran toward him thinking he was ill. He was sobbing and kissing the ground. No luggage, no shirt, no shoes, no watch, no wallet, he left behind everything he could for the people in his village. An undershirt with holes and pants with tears and no belt were worn on the plane.
So I need to make a decision whether I want to emotionally hold on to dishes, or offer them to someone who would use and appreciate them. It's a hard one because they were a gift from my parents. I need to look in the attic and check if those dishes are usable.
I like the old dishes pictured here, I only have one or two pieces. But maybe I will be surprised when I open the attic's box! I think it's time to have dinnerware that I enjoy seeing and caring for. I think Mom and Dad would want that too.
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