And that's what the brats are doing. Cold with snow on the ground, so Crabass Stitcher meets Crabass Santa this afternoon.
Petey is becoming a problem. He is now hanging around the back door, pitifully crying. I won't let him inside because of conflicts and I can't get near, so how would I get him out? Plus the fleas he is probably carrying. But. He is attacking Missy. She is half his size and he waits in hiding for her to go out (they won't use a litter box) and the chase follows. Old man Bud goes to help but he is missing several front teeth and aged. He would not stand a chance. So now what? I saw an article online that a pheromone hog spray applied to a female's back will deter males. The spray tricks them into thinking the female is a male through scent. So will she make the house smell like a sex crazed hog? Thankfully I was able to trap them early and have all three neutered, but it has not stopped the fighting with others.
One article describes its use for bad behavior in dogs.
Another was similar but related to cats fighting and ravaging the females, neutered or not, and good results using the same boar/pig androstenone pheromone. Or something like that. Missy has been here for almost 10 years and still runs from us, a hunter, and not a house cat unless it's raining or very cold. Hiding her will not help, and I can't leave her/them in the house while in Cleveland or gone for the day. Doesn't matter the color, scent, no scent, texture, box size, they will not use the litter. Petey has been a good boy until he started coming close to the house, and he is even hovering over Bud now, showing his dominance. Not good.
I wish Petey's family was responsible and did not allow this to happen, but many cat owners are not able to domesticate strays and do the best they can. I don't have the answer. I'm one of them.
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